Transsexual dating will be new to most people. It is a tricky thing to get into. Do you do it openly? Does it make you gay/bi? and just how do you find a transsexual to date?
Well most people will be a bit scared at first what friends, family and colleagues think. So don't feel obliged to be open especially if you aren't sure it is the lifestyle choice for you.
The gay/bi debate is an age old one. There are no labels which categorize someone that dates transsexuals. So just go with your heart and forget about labels.
Finding a date can be done online (e.g. the links on this site to TS Dating), or larger cities have transgender friendly bars and clubs. These bars are usually within the gay village (area of LGBT venues), so they are fairly well hidden from standard bars which is good for discreet people.
The best thing to do is dive in. Whether it be chatting online or meeting in person. Avoid the smutty sites and strike up a rapport with real people. You will soon realize that the world of transsexuals isn't so strange, and can be rewarding for those that give them a chance.